Being humble and respecting each others is the common ground for the Nordic people. The acceptable rules to behave are summarized in 10 unwritten rules named the Jante Law. However, these unwritten rules were actually part of a real book…
In 1933, Axel S. wrote this code of conduct of how people need to behave in their lives as mentioned below:
- You’re not to think you are anything special.
- You’re not to think you are as good as we are.
- You’re not to think you are smarter than we are.
- You’re not to imagine yourself better than we are.
- You’re not to think you know more than we do.
- You’re not to think you are more important than we are.
- You’re not to think you are good at anything.
- You’re not to laugh at us.
- You’re not to think anyone cares about you.
- You’re not to think you can teach us anything.
Very simple rules that Nordic people acknowledge and live accordingly. The only thing that you have to do is to memorize and here you go…
Not so simple, for all of us that are born and raised outside Scandinavia. Our education system is built on excellence and how we can prove ourselves better than the others…
“Probably”, we can reach happiness without reaching excellence. For me, this does not necessarily mean to have low expectations, but to be able to respect and to cooperate…
Almost 100 years ago, Nordic nations set the “rules” and demanded happiness. Let’s us read the jante law and reflect: maybe it will take us shorter…









